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Can Ya Guess; Answered




So, WHY was my son plopped on the sidewalk, still as can be?

While daughter, friend, and I were outside, my son ran back inside to get something.  In the 2 minutes it took for him to accomplish his task he missed a buzzard flying low and over our heads.  So, after his disappointment, then riding his bike again, he hatched a plan:  lay down and pretend to be dead, so the buzzard would come back.

Well, I laughed to near hysteria.  Which is good, because I don't like it when my kids play dead--ever. 

Once I regained my composure, I gently reminded him about the natural intelligence of animals and the buzzard's instinct.  It didn't take.  Next thing I knew, daughter and friend were camped out on the side walk with him. 

All I can say is I'm glad that huge bird didn't come back and do a fly-by pooping.  Because, I'd have some upset kids.  Especially, if I had laughed at them, like I KNOW I would have!  (So, easy to laugh when the YUCK isn't on me!  Nice Momma!  lol)

PSA of the day:  when looking up at birds overhead, don't stand with mouth agape.



Melinda

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Can Ya Guess?



Hmm.  If I was a gamblin' woman, I'd say, 50 bucks to the correct answer!  That's code for:  if i weren't in the middle of moving thus neglecting my bloggy-love and smack in the middle of an economic showdown, I'd take wagers.  But, since I'm playin' it legal and taking no time at all to research a giveaway (sorry, lovelies) I'm gonna see if anyone is willing to play anyway! 

As I watched my kids ride bikes with their buddy, I saw my son hop off his bike and lie flat on the ground. 





Why?! 



I've missed my readers!!  I will return, sooner than later.  I just gotta relocate and do all those things in between that take up so much time

I hope you're having a wonderful summer and staying cool!

Melinda


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Already A Diva?





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Air Your Clean Laundry




I love to hang our laundry out to dry. Well, I don’t really LOVE the work, but I love what we get out of it. Part of it may be the lifestyle that I love. Being in the country; (even though I did it when I lived in town too, so city livin aint a reason not to). Maybe it’s the memories of seeing my Grandma pinning up those sheets with way too many pink roses on them, or using those sheets as a fort.

Why do I hang my laundry on the line? Many reasons. The most obvious is the savings. The sun is free while my dryer uses electricity that I have to pay for. Plus, here in Oklahoma where it’s a toasty 100 degrees in the summer, the clothes dry in half the time as they would in the dryer. So, I can save on time too. Now I wouldn't’t go so far as to wash the clothes on a wash board, like my Grandma did as she was growing up. I’m much too spoiled for that, I’ll pay the power and water bill thank you very much.

Another reason is it smells great! Fabric softeners try to duplicate that smell and you just can’t do it. There’s nothing like laying your head on sheets dried outside. It’s a fresh and peaceful smell that can’t be topped.

Then there’s the benefit to the environment. Less electricity used is a good thing in many ways. In fact, many ways to save money also help our environment. Whether you intend to or not. So… why not?

And perhaps the most important reason is that it’s fun to run through the sheets and towels as they flap in the breeze!


Hope your summer is as fun as this!

Wendy

  P.S. During this game my youngest there learned to say his first phrase. "Ready, set GO!" Although from his lips it sounds like "Ra Ah GO!" Now he’s in love with running and racing with his brother and sister. He’ll run up to them and yell "GO!" then run away expecting them to run after him. This is enough reason for me to hang out my laundry.

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Horsing Around





The two sets of feet in the background are wearing a horse costume, right?  Yup, that's the way my brain works.  The fact that I'm sharing this notion with you, just reflects my giving side.  Or willingness to "bear" all, even if I appear slightly crazy.  hee hee. 

Really, its just my natural tenedancy to see humor in everything.  Although, I know when to Rein it in.  Generally.  Just don't ask for proof on that one, please.


Happy Summer Everyone!

Melinda



P.S.  Well, I'm trying to catch up on some bloggy issues.  Yesterday, I tired to post but the software had a mind of its own.  I would like to request..er, uh, demand, if my Blog wants to morph into a self sufficient, writer not needed machine, then it should, in the very least, write an amazing blog daily!  Write, right?!  Hmmff

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Frugal Father's Day Gifts. (aka. what to give when every day things cost a zillion dollars)

Yeah, its almost Father's Day!

Frugal gift ideas for kids to do (or with Mommy's help):



1.  Write a song, poem, or story about how much Daddy is loved.  Or about a fun shared memory.
2.  Dance to a loved song.
3.  Act out a skit about Daddy, or family, or about a favored activity.
4.  Draw a picture.
5.  Take a picture of his children, his home.
6.  Wash his vehicle, bike, boat. 
7.  Sing a song.  Ex:  Father's Love by George Strait, Daddy's Hands by Holly Dunn, Just the Two of Us   by Will Smith

8.  Interpret/break down a song:  highlight lyrics to reflect true life examples relating to Daddy.
9.  Recite a Bible verse.
10.  Complete a chore(s) without being asked.  (forever? )
11.  Make a q-pon book offering:
  
      a.  breakfast, lunch, dinner, and dessert of Daddy's choice
      b.  do Daddy's chores
      c.  choice of movie rentals (store bought or from the library)
      d.  endless hugs and kisses and tickles
      e.  Daddy's choice, open to Daddy's ideas

12. Draw a picture.
13.  Write a card beginning with:

       a.  "I love my Daddy because..."
       b.  "Daddy and I like to..."
       c.   "My Daddy is special to me because..."


14.  Mental vacation: all complaints and disagreements resolved by someone other than Dad! 
15.  Wash his vehicle, bike, boat.
16.  Let him sleep in until noon!

17.  Interview your children.  Ask them questions about their Dad and memories of him.  Write down verbatim or video record their answers.--leaving in all the fidgets, ums, and giggles.  Just recording your kids, just as they are, just as Daddy's sees them--just as he loves them.

18.  Ask your kids what they want to do for their Dad.  Chances are, their ideas will be wonderful.  And since its their idea, it makes the gift that much sweeter.


19.  Dinner at home:

Going out to eat is great,  I really love to do it.  Great food, social atmosphere, and being catered to, whats not to love?  But, going out to eat for every celebration can be pricey and unhealthy, with tempting sweet choices and yummy steaks dripping in juice and butter.  Uh, okay, that didn't sound too bad after I read it!  ha!  However, there are hidden calories, fats, and carbs in jazzed up food--thats why it tastes so good!  

So, when we are itching to celebrate by eating out but are in a stay at home mode, we order in.  But, not for the whole family.  For example, for Father's Day, my husband may pick his restaurant of choice and I place the order and pick it up (or have it delivered) to be enjoyed at our home, around our table. 

When I came up with this idea years ago, it was almost painful.  Ya know, seeing someone else eat something that looked and smelled fantastic.  But, it really saves money and underscores that the day is about ONE person, so the spotlight and emphasis is on their enjoyment. 


20.  Wait on Dad from sun up to sun down, catering to every need.  (Warning!  He may get used to it and expect it to last, and hmpff!  who am I kiddin'?  (hee hee )




This year I will be cooking meals of Hubby's choice, interviewing our kids, and making cards.  My husband is an amazing Dad, so I do whatever I can to acknowledge his efforts and dedication.  My children adore their Daddy, so doting on Dad will be a treat!

Yeah, spending money is fun--what guy doesn't love gadgets?  Although, when it comes down to it, in my world anyway, the best gifts cost nothing at all!


have fun thinking of Dad!

Melinda

P.S.  I wrote this blog a year ago.  On second thought, don't pay your light bill for a few months and buy him something that has a screen.  lol :o)  then again, the heat could be getting to my head!

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Here A Glitch, There A Glitch. Everywhere A Glitch-Glitch!!




Oh NO!  Its a bloggy disaster!  My poor little blog has developed a glitch or two.  For example, my subscribers are not receiving "New Entry" notifications.  And, some comments are not being accepted.  Why is it so?  Uh, I dunno!

So, We  (ha ha ha, should read "Hubby" ;o) )  will be helping fix it's sickness, thank goodness.  So, please, "bear" with me as we wait together for things to behave as they should!  It should be noted that sticking one's tongue out at the screen does not improve bloggy conditions nor does a verbal warning of a "time out" chair. 

In the meantime, I will continue to post.  So, swing by for a visit, when ya can


Have a lovely day, would ya?  That would make me so happy :o)!

Melinda


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How Do I Spell Summer?





Did you ever get in trouble in school for staring out the window? As a young child in Alaska, students looked out the window at distant lightening.  In Virginia, students looked out the window at snowflakes, that until recently, was a rare sight.  As they watched, I watched them;  my classmates were mesmerized by something I saw for months on end, while school was "In" !

Windows don't get my kids in trouble, as long as they have the ability to refocus and complete the task they're working on.   My daughter's desk is smack in front of the window.  I leave the blinds open for the natural, welcoming light to pour in  She points out birds, people walking, anything really.  But, thankfully, she can see and continue on with her work.  My son's desk , however, faces the wall.  Doesn't that sound awful?  Truly, if his desk was positioned as my daughter's, he probably would never focus on his seat work.  Oh, I certainly understand it.  How easy is it to concentrate when a beautiful day beckons? 

However, I do believe it is time to rearrange the desks.  Maybe their entire school room.  Ideally, I want a functioning room, that contains necessary props and inspires necessary--or even unnecessary-- thoughts!  So, as our school year is "over", according to the State, it is NEVER "over".  I will continue to search out info, indirectly and directly teach info, read, explore, and enjoy the process. 

I don't want my kids to ever think learning is meant to stop.  I think that way of thinking is dangerous, contagious, and creates the need to recap for half a year or so, before getting on to new information.  Eh, I could be too critical.  

My children get time, daily, to play and explore on their own.  I believe that is also vital for any individual, regardless of age.  So, I promise I'm not inflicting pain on my kids; they sincerely enjoy learning.  Perhaps that will change, but for now, its an unexpected blessing.  And I love it!


Happy almost Summer!

Melinda

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She's 5!!





For months I heard, "I want to go driving at night in my pjs for my birthday!"  My daughter remembered a year or so ago when I woke her and brother up to go pick Daddy up from the airport.  Apparently she thought that was cooler than anything, so I decided to grant my newly 5 year old's wish ;o).

Once my babies were asleep, I woke them up!  Well, a few hours lapsed there...My son ended up staying with Daddy because he felt ill.  But, my sweet girl, my niece, and I went driving, in the dark, in our pjs.





Sophia loves "boom-booms", so we went to the airport to watch planes.  Turned out, no more flights were scheduled.  We missed every last one of them.  Of course, it was nearly midnight, the shops were closed, the cafe, closed.  However, the Security Guard, that question our purpose there, was WIDE AWAKE!  oops.

I had considered the possibility of being watched or questioned before we walked into the empty airport in.  our.  pjs.  But, I figured, if asked, I'd answer straight up; hoping the truth would be enough to avoid an escort out of the airport.  (how does one get thrown out of a revolving door, anyway?!)  I told the Security Guard my plans.  He smiled and wished my girl a happy birthday!

My gang slowly made our way back out of the airport, stopping to discuss the artwork outside.  As we talked, the Security Guard returned saying, "I was trying to get to you before you left."  He handed Sophia an airport coloring book and crayons.  It was the sweetest thing.  He didn't have to do that!  My daughter was thrilled and, honestly, I was too. 

We left with a smile and laughter and a need to drive a bit more.  So, I drove to a church that glows with lights at night, the "castle" church as Sophia calls it.  So, so beautiful.

I hope my daughter will remember her 5th birthday;  how the thoughtfulness and effort of family, and the unsolicited kindness of strangers, are far better than any wrapped gift.

My daughter's request was so sweet, how could I deny her that?


Melinda





I love you, Sophia! 

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Like Weeds, I Tell Ya, Like Weeds





"Mommy, I think YOU'RE the tooth fairy!  Santa goes down the chimney, and Daddy said It could go through a keyhole, but we don't have keyholes, so I think its YOU!  You're the only one sneaky enough to do it!!"

(I laughed.  But, deep down inside I wondered...sneaky?  Really?  Is it THAT obvious?!  lol)

My daughter turned 5 and my son lost his first baby tooth, all in one weekend.  My "height impaired" Mom has always told children nearing her size, "I'm gonna put bricks on your head!"  A fun-loving way to say, "Hold-up, don't grow up so fast!"  Naturally, I filed that under Impossible.  But, now, I think its worth a try, don't you?


Melinda


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